I think you should consider the fact that this guy may be right! 😉 You definitely should not move in with him for a year, and he’s exhibiting excellent judgment by telling you this. In other words, he’s a great guy! Consider dating him for three months to decide if the two of you even want to continue dating each other. You should understand that it’s normal for you to both be playing the field at the same time so you don’t get too involved with someone you don’t know very well too soon. At about the six month mark, decide if you both want to be monogamous. And if you do, aim for moving in together on his timeframe — but don’t watch the clock. Instead, focus on stability for you and your child, and choosing men wisely and carefully so you don’t create a revolving door of men for your child, or for you! 😉
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