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y boyfriend and I live together and we have one young child together. We have been back together for 3 years now following our 3 monthe breakup over him not knowing what he wanted. When we got lost back together we decided to move in together, and then I found out I was pregnant. We decided to continue with moving in and talked about marriage. However I did not want to get married and feel like later in life we only got married because I was pregnant, and we both agreed later. He has told me that he will go to dayshift and has told me that for 3 years, but he has made no effort in doing so. He told me that he will in the future, but won’t give me a time frame, and has said that he does not ever want to get married again. He has also said that he cares more about his happiness than mine. But he loves me very much. I feel like a hopeless convienece. Him being home at night and us being married were and are big deals for me. I need that security. What do I do, or am I waisting my time?

[AskApril Masini]

Fill me in a little further. How old are you both and how old is the baby?

I read that you’ve been together for 3 years following a 3 month break up — how long were you together before that break up?

Why did you get back together after the break up? I understand why you broke up, but what changed that made you want to get back together?

I’ll look out for your answers and give you my advise when I read them. 🙂

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