[Nicolereneeross]

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years and sometimes I just feel like he isn’t as into me as I am him and sometimes he doesn’t seem happy to be hanging out with me.. Is this how guys act or should I be worried?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You know, a two year relationship at your ages (both 18), is a long relationship! And in most long-term relationships, there are ebbs and flows and ups and downs. So it’s normal to feel happy to be together, annoyed at each other, anticipating meeting up, bored — and all sorts of other emotions. I don’t think that ups and downs mean anything bad is happening. However…. trust your instincts. If you feel that he’s losing interest, then try and heat up the spark. Go have an adventure. Take a road trip. See something new, or do something different. Long-term relationships take work, and you have to put some planning and some energy into keeping things fresh.

I hope that helps!

[Swera Khan]

The truth is, people change at the age of 18. If he’s not enjoying being with you, he’s probably bored with the relationship. Give him space, enough space to figure out what life is like without you.
If you feel like he’s not interested, you too get busy with your own life, go out with friends, and let him know that your happiness doesn’t depend on his “mood swings.” If you spend all day wondering “why isn’t he happy,” you’ll lose your attraction. Always think of yourself as a prize, not a person begging for attention.

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