You’re in a tough spot and you’re asking the right questions.
It sounds like you’re depressed and you’re not weathering the normal ups and downs of a relationship — especially one with a two year old child — very easily. You’re bored. You’re lonely. You’re looking for drama. And you’ve dug up an old boyfriend to cure that ennui.
Things are different now that you have a child. You have to put her first. It’s not fair to drag her away from her father to chase down a guy in another state and see if he’s the answer to “your [i]potential[/i] happiness”. 😕 If your boyfriend and father of your child is the “wonderful man” you claim he is, then my advice is to make this relationship work. ALL relationships are work and ALL relationships go through ups and downs like the ones you’re experiencing. Roll up your sleeves and be grateful for the family you have in your child and your boyfriend who now wants to marry you, and who is a good father to your daughter.
You may be missing out on happiness right now — but I think you’re going to find it in your own home with your own boyfriend and your own daughter.
I hope that helps. Please do let me know how things go.
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