I am openly lesbian at work and have a girlfriend. I am quite close to a married coworker (I will call her C). We all went out for a work party and she sat next to me all night; our bodies were touching side by side. At one point someone told a guy he was a bit effeminate at which point I jokingly said maybe I should butch up, being a lesbian. At this point C said she thought I was very pretty and that she found me sexy as I was the perfect mix of female and male and that if she wasn’t married then she would go for me.
I thought she was being nice but later when it was just me, C and another person, we were talking about relationships and C said she didn’t know if she was gay or straight as she was brought up religiously so she was taught it was wrong but she believes it’s about the person and not the gender. She then said again that if she wasn’t married she would go for me. She also said that she had her [insert my name here] but I can’t remember the sentence fully as I was still thinking on what she had said the sentence before. She was sober and hadn’t had a single drink.
I kinda felt for a while she may like me, I find her behaviour confusing. What would you think to this? If she had just said I was pretty then I would take it as she was just being nice but adding the rest has made me wonder what she feels towards me?
