Wow. And I thought [b]I[/b] was no holds barred! [b]Donttakemeseriously[/b] really let loose! But you can understand why, of course. Clearly, it’s a lot better to have children after you get to know someone better, and usually after getting married, but since you took a “more creative root” ๐ let’s deal with what’s going on today. ๐
I don’t know how old you are, so I’m going to guess you’re young. That said, since you have six month old twins, it’s going to be best for the kids if you can make the relationship work out and give them a traditional family. It also sounds like that’s what you want to do for yourself. ๐
Traditional ways to get him more interested include getting yourself back in shape and getting out of mommy mode so the two of you can rekindle some romance. Getting away for a weekend and letting grandparents babysit is great for couples with young children. Become the girlfriend you were before you were pregnant and before you were a mother — or aim for that, anyway! Regardless, it’s best if you don’t give up because it’s no longer just about you. You have twins who need their father and if the two of you can work it out so you’re a family under one roof — that’s usually better for the kids. ๐
The problem is going to be if he feels like he’s been trapped into a high stress situation (Even couples who try to have kids and end up with twins are stressed!) and he hasn’t accepted or made peace with his future as a father and possible husband.
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