[Anonymous]

I’m in love with my boyfriend. We have been dating for a while and we both can see each other together in the future. I think I really have found my soul mate.
I moved to California a couple months ago and my boyfriend’s father is in the military and so they moved to Florida.
We are a long distance relationship big time; however, we don’t mind the wait because we know it will be worth being with each other.

Now here is the confusing part. I met this one guy at my new school here. He is really cool and we have similarities. He already has came to my house to hang with my family and they love him. We both are athletic and play sports together and chill with my family. He likes me and I like him too.

I love my boyfriend and I like this guy now. I don’t know what to do. I’m confused. I feel a strong connection with this guy here and I can’t get this out of my head. What am I suppose to do?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Since I don’t know how old you are (tell me!!), I am going to guess you’re in college since you’ve mentioned school. That said, this is a time when it’s natural and normal to want to date and see what’s out there. Long distance relationships are remarkably difficult to sustain at this age. My suggestion is that you and your boyfriend decide to date other people until you are both living in the same city and can resume (if you decide to) your relationship. Making a break because you are geographically undesirable to dating is a good reason for a break up.

Sorry, but your confusion is over trying to make something right that isn’t.

[Member]

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