[VivaNaPaz]

Hello,

I’m 17 years old, and I have a friend I’ve gotten to know over the past 7 or 8 months. We always seem to have a good time around each other and we chat on Facebook and text now and then. She has said to me that she enjoys talking to me and being my friend. I’ve realized, though, that I am always the one to initiate contact with her, with the exception of a few instances. Should I talk to her about it and invite her to initiate with me more often? Or should I take this as a sign that she’s not really interested in being as close of friends as I thought?

Thank you for any advice you can give me,
Ophelia

[April Masini, your AskApril]

There’s a saying that goes, water finds it’s own level. So if [i]you[/i] stop initiating contact, and see if she does, and how and how often, you’ll have a better idea of her interest. 😉 My advice is to try this, rather than talking to her about your invitation to contact you more. She already knows she can contact you more, but her need to contact you is less than your need to contact her. Hold back, and see where the true level of your mutual contact in this friendship lies. 😀

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