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Crush on a Friend’s ex-girlfriend?

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    I knew this girl four years ago, and I just saw her and I knew I had a crush on her, but she had a bf so we never were closer at all, after a year she changed school so I never knew anything more about her, now much time after she found me on Facebook and added me as a friend, I was amassed by the fact she remembered me and so was she when realize that I did as well, after a couple of wall comments I gave her my phone number she gave me hers, we talked a couple of times, she told me to saw her on tv (she was going have an appear) and so, there we go getting closer

    I saw on her Facebook a friend added, so I asked him about her and he told me that she was his ex, he behave really cool about it, even told me that she wasn’t an easy girl (I saw it like an advice), then talking to her on the phone she asked me if I knew him, I told her that he was a good friend since a year ago, an she was like oh just year! with a little of relief tone, and I asked her why she asked? and she said oh nothing really, I just knew him many years ago, really odd! then change subjet…

    And I don’t know, I really like her, but if I ask her to go out to somewhere were he is going to be, How uncomfortable would it be? and how would he take it? I really like her, is weird actually, is the only girl that makes me nervous!

    #17955
    Mot352
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    If she makes you happy and you want to ask her on a date, ask her! Don’t let your friend scare you about who to date. Even if she wasn’t easy for [i]him[/i] to get along with…she may be a totally different case for you.

    If your friend gets jealous, then it’s his problem. They broke up! In my opinion, if he wanted her back, he should have told you this when you asked about her.

    There ARE certain “guy rules” about dating a friends ex-girlfriend, but I don’t think this breaks any of them. I say ask her out.

    #19412

    If you want to give your friend some respect, you can let him know that you’re taking this ex-girlfriend out on a date. You can do it before or after, but don’t ask permission. Instead tell him that out of respect you want him to know what’s going on.

    If he was a long time best friend and she was the love of his life that didn’t work out, I’d have different advice for you, but I think that you can avoid social chaos by being up front, direct and short, but sweet.

    I hope that helps.

    Good luck!

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