[underwriter]

April,

A little background. I am 46 and date a lot. I go on a lot of first dates. It is rare that i am ever like someone or would consider a commited relationship. I either have no chemistry or all i have is chemistry.. Finding someone who i like as a person as well as have a spark with comes around 3 or 4 times in 9 years.

Here is my problem. I hate playing games, yet i know i need to. At least i should initially…. Its so funny. I naturally play the game when i don’t like someone, because…well i don’t care. I get women texting and calling all the time, non-stop. When i like someone, i get too excited and tend to go over the top and scare them away. No stalking or crazyness…. i just forget my own advice once i have found someone i like. its a pretty rare occurance.

I need you to give me a kick in the ass and give me the deal on games at my age and at want point i can stop playing them. Not to answer the phone everytime? Don’t return the texts so quick… i just need someone to point me in the right direction and i can take it from there.

thank you,

UW

[AskApril Masini]

If you want comprehensive advice, then you should give yourself the best $8.99 Valentine’s Day gift you can: Date Out of Your League, the book I wrote for men who want to win with women. You can get it here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].

In a nutshell, you have to discipline yourself more to win a woman over — and not to act on your emotions or act impulsively. Women want men who are successful, confident and charming as well as generous and kind and sexy. If you come off as desperate or needy, you’re not going to be perceived as sexy or confident, either. 😕

I hope that helps. 😉

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[underwriter]

that is just it… i am extremely confident and successful. I just sometimes forget the rules of the game.. I will just move forward using my own advice. Don’t be too accessable and don’t come off like i am too interested. Its sucks you have to act like this at my age, but its the way human nature is. You always want, want you can’t have…

UW

[AskApril Masini]

All the advice you need is in the book [b]Date Out of Your League[/b]! 😉

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