[kevin32]

Hi April. There’s a woman at my job that I want to ask out on a date, but before I ask her out, I want to make sure she’s interested in me first, because I don’t want to make her uncomfortable. I have a few questions:

1. Why would you consider dating a man from your job, rather than dating a man from the bar or club?

2. Is there anything you say or do to indicate to the guy that you like him and want to go out with him? Maybe smiling more or something?

3. Have you ever dated a guy from your workplace? How did he ask you out on a date? What was it about him that made you attracted to him in the first place? Or can you recommend some ways I should conduct myself at work that will make her more receptive to me when I ask her out on a date? Thanks.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you ask her those questions she’s going to feel like she’s being interviewed, deposed or plain old grilled! They’re all good questions, but I hope that they’re for me — not this woman you’re interested in! 😉

So, in answer to your first question, women are interested in dating men from work because they know them in a way they don’t men they meet at bars or clubs. They know that the men have jobs and where they work! They know how they conduct themselves at work and who they hang out with at work. This is a lot of information that can make a woman feel like she’s screened a man in a way that would take months if she just met a guy in a dark club or bar! In fact most women and men date each other after meeting at work or work related events because that’s where they spend most of their time.

A woman will let you know she’s interested by flirting with you, and yes, smiling at you. Read Date Out of Your League, a book I wrote for men who want to win with women. It will show you what specific body language moves mean! Here’s the link where you can get the book: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].

Everything you need to know about whether or not she likes you and is interested in your asking her out, is in that book. If you want to know more about her dating life and if she’s ever dated anyone from the office, save that conversation for your first date — or second!

I hope that helps, and that you’ll follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter, and on Facebook: [url][/url]. 😀

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