Okay, friend — I’ve BEEN to New Jersey and the women aren’t ALL like that! 😉
I think it would be worth your while to scrape together $14.95 and buy Date Out of Your League at this link: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. If you can’t invest $14.95 in a book — how can you afford to take a woman out on a date? 😯
If you’re in a financial “situation” my advice is to get some work before you consider dating — it’s understandable that women are looking for a man with some success. I don’t think you have to be Donald Trump, but you have to have a job or a career plan at least, to be desirable.
I hope that helps! 😀