People get involved in relationships for different reasons. Some people want to get married. Others want to experience intimacy — and by intimacy, I don’t just mean sex. You seem like the latter. You’d decided you’re ready and wanting to have sex, but your boyfriend isn’t and the sexual things you’re doing aren’t satisfying to you, and you’re becoming frustrated physically, emotionally and socially. Frankly, it sounds like you’re outgrowing this relationship.
I don’t think you should choose a man just to have sex. You’ll wind up getting hurt, emotionally. But you are ready for someone who wants a mutually intimate relationship that is intimate socially, psychologically, mentally and physically. It’s good to know what you want. I would caution you not to break up and then date someone just for the sake of having sex with them. Instead, look for your Mr. Right — someone who’s the total package for you!
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