Here’s the deal: you’re in charge of your life and your behavior and if you want certain things for yourself you have to direct YOUR behavior and set up boundaries as well as open doors to men who behave the way you’re interested in men behaving with you. Flirting is a wonderful way to let a man know you’re interested in him. If a man is interested in getting to know you and having a relationship with you then he’ll ask you out on a date to see if you’ll spend more time with him. You then get to chose whether or not you want to. In other words, YOU become the prize that he’s after, and he gets to chase after you and try and win you over.
If he isn’t interested in a relationship, but just in the thrill of flirting, he won’t ask you out. If he is only interested in sex — and there are men who will have sex because they can, not because they want a more meaningful relationship with you — then that’s all you’ll be offered. But make no mistake, dating is strategic and if you want to truly win, then you have to play like it’s a business. In other words, if this guy isn’t giving you the direction you’re looking for, which I think is a date, then you should move on to find a man who is interested in you for what you WANT him to be interested in. If you stay and waste time on a guy who isn’t behaving as if he’s interested, you’re wasting your time.
Get my book called Think & Date Like A Man. It’s a great book to explain dating to get Mr. Right and it’s going to be very valuable to you since you don’t have a lot of experience just yet. Here’s the link where you can buy it: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].
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