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I am hoping for some opinions. I was dating a guy and we had a lot in common. We could talk for hours, in person was a little awkward since we are both quiet, but I understood so I was ok with it. I supported his goals, even when he was embarrassed about telling me them, and for weeks encouraged him to do what he needed to do to finish.

The problem, when I talked about my license. Since he is in the same profession as me and we understand the busy sessions, i thought this was a given. He has his license and was supported by his family financially while going to school and taking the exam. I am working and paying for everything myself. He wants to be married and is ready for a relationship now, but I told him I am going for the testing for my license and asked to wait til I passed before we got more serious. I don’t want to have a full time boyfriend or fiance and planning a wedding when I need to be studying.

But he didn’t respond to me.

Instead he made posts on Facebook that he had to get use to life as a “write off” and posted a song about being learning to be alone from the musical I told him I watch a lot because I love the music from it. It was so extremely passive aggressive and still makes me feel sick when I think about it. Did I dodge a huge bullet?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I don’t know if you dodged a bullet — but it does sound like the two of you are incompatible. He wasn’t really interested in your schedule. Just his own. 😉

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