so I met this guy online and we were hitting it off and we finally met in person. he came to my friends house and we were chilling and drinking, but he wasn’t really paying me any attention, and we werent talking at all. he was just playing beer pong with his friend. so then he leaves without saying goodbye. and I got pissed and I was drunk so I called and texted him excessively and I know it was annoying, but he wasn’t answering. so the next day I was like “are you really not gonna answer” and he was like “my friend got sick I had to take him home he was bugging out I should have said goodbye that was d*** but the amount of times you called and texted me was out of control my ex used to do that to me and I’m not about that I’m sorry” so I was like “im sorry I called and texted so much but you could have said bye. are you gonna give me another chance?” and he was like “honestly I don’t know but ill text you tm I have a lot to do tonight” well the next day it was 8pm and he hadn’t texted yet so I texted him and he was like “my phone has been off all day I just got out of work and I told you we would talk tomorrow I don’t think we should talk anymore I just don’t see it working out between work and school starting soon I’m sorry.” so I wrote him a message on Facebook and he answered and was like “listen I’m just not interested you’re so nice and cool but you act like we’ve been dating for 5 years your like begging and I’m not into that. we’ve only known each other for a few weeks and I feel like its been 5 years. I’m just not interested I’m sorry hope all is well.”
do you think when he met me in person he just wasn’t into me? or do you think I really messed up?
