[Anonymous]

About two or three months ago I began having a sexual relationship with a guy that i have known for about 2 years. However, we had only sopken socially and mostly in a work environment but, we had always had a bit of flirty chemistry. I seen him out in a night club and we were able to let the professional barriar down a bit. We immediately began having a sexual relationship proceeding that night. We have only hung out at night and never had a formal date. The problem is that I do really like this guy. Im affraid that by having sex with him so early on and not having “dated” each other properly first, I have ruined my chances of being more to him. I have only hinted once that I’d like to have more between us and he agreed fully that we should. Since then hes made no move toward changing the nature of the relationship. I need to know if I will be able to salvage this and turn the tables or should i just let go and be content with the sex?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you want to change the relationship then you have to change your behavior. Talk is cheap, and action will do the trick.

Don’t see him for booty calls. Only agree to see him if you’re going to dinner, a movie or some other date like activity. You can have sex with him AFTER a date, but ONLY after a real date.

It’s really that simple. You’ll find out if he’s interested in you for more than sex pretty quickly this way.

[Anonymous]

Thats awsome advice! Thank you!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Thank you — I’m glad I could help! 😀 Good luck.

[Bea Celine]

Never ever be contented with sex only! You deserve a formal date. Try to lie low from him for a while and see if he will miss you and if he’ll make an effort to be with you. Don’t make yourself cheap.

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