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Does he actually like me when he’s still going on the dating

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    lollypoppet
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    So a couple of weeks ago I was a little bored and went on a dating site, without actually expecting to talk to someone I would like, I just wanted to see what it was like. Anyways, this guy messaged me and we swapped numbers. We have been talking every day since, its been a couple weeks now. He’s currently away, but will be returning back in a couple weeks, and has said he would like to go out on dates with me. He told me he likes me more and more every day, he always intiates conversation, he always compliments me etc we do get on, and have a laugh. Sometimes he can be a bit intense, sexually and emotionally, and i think maybe he is ready settle, like even he has mentioned having babies lol.

    I’m trying to play it cool, keep my cards close to my chest etc, i’m tryina work out if he has a game plan or something, but I am starting to like him too, slowly, but surely, however some weird seed of thought was planted in my head to check the website we used to see if he has gone on it, since we have started speaking, i haven’t been on, but i went and had a look and he has been on since. I’m just wondering…he’s telling me this stuff, but then he’s still going on it, I dont know what this means?

    I’m not gunna confront him about it, but just curious, as his actions seem different from his words? It’s also hard to come to any real conlusions as we haven’t been on a date yet! Any advice or perspective would be really appreciated!

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    AskApril Masini
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    Dating websites are great places to meet eligible men, but they can also be crutches that people use to keep from being lonely and, ironically, to keep from going out on real life dates. 🙄 If you meet someone on a dating website, you should assume he’s meeting other women (and you should be meeting other men, as well), and that if he doesn’t ask you out on a real life date in about three weeks from meeting online, that he’s just not that interested in you. 😕 Use that timeline to protect yourself from getting invested in someone you aren’t dating, but would like to. 😉

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