[needingtoknow]

Ok..so I (30,f) have been dating my boyfriend (36,m) for almost 8 years. This past weekend, a friend (21,m) wants to drink with us (30,f, 36,m). After a few shots of liquor and close to a 30 pack of beer, me (30,f) and the friend (21,m) end up making out on the couch. My boyfriend (36,m) sits there and acts like he (36,m) doesn’t care. Twenty minutes of this and my boyfriend (36,m) finally snaps. He (36,m) yells at us (30,f, 21,m) and then the night was over. None of us (30,f, 36,m, 21,m) knew what was going on at the time this happened. I (30,f) really like this friend (21,m) and have argued with my boyfriend (36,m) for a week prior to this night. Does the friend (21,m) really like me (30,f) or was he (21,m) just playing me (30,f)? He (21,m) won’t answer my (30,f) texts or talk to me (30,f) on Facebook.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Wait — you, your boyfriend and a friend drank 30 beers [i][b]and[/b][/i] a few shots of liquor, and you’re asking me about whether a guy you made out with, drunk, likes you? 😯 I think you’re missing the real problem here. That’s way too much alcohol for three people to be having in one night! That you made out with another guy during that evening is not the real problem here! This is terrible for your health, let alone your judgment.

Go get a physical, talk to your physician about your drinking, and then know that anyone who drinks that much with you and then makes out with you is just behaving under the influence. If he really liked you, he’d call you when he’s sober — not cut you off on social media and texts. He’s not interested. Sorry. 😕

I hope that helps and that you can get healthy! 😉

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