[Taylorford]

Should I continue to let him lead everything or should I be able to make more forward approaches?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

The reality is that guys like leading. They like chasing and capturing. They like winning the prize. When you take those opportunities away from him, you take away some of the excitement and joy that he may feel by winning you over. He’s not on the same timetable that you are, and that’s normal. Everybody has a different timeline and when you’re getting to know someone romantically, learning the way you each do things, is part of the process of a relationship.

I think you’re doing fine, but I do think you should hang back and let him lead because it will help you to better understand how he feels and where he is in his feelings. When a guy chases you and asks you out, you know where you stand. When you take the lead, you know where you stand, but you don’t necessarily know where he stands. 😉

[Taylorford]

My friend asked him if he like me and he said yes, but he didn’t know me well enough to date. What do I do now?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Flirt with him. Compliment him. Ask him questions about himself. This is how you get the conversation started — and how he gets to know you and becomes comfortable enough to ask you out. 🙂

[Taylorford]

Today he didn’t even talk to me! I walked into class and my guy friend was joking around and wouldn’t let me sit in my desk and the guy I like was watching on the corner of his eye. I felt him staring at me throughout the class and he was being extremely loud –something he rarely does. He kept mentioning his ex and how she had moved on and how she broke his heart. He only talked to me when he needed a piece of paper or when I was talking to someone and he would throw in a sarcastic comment to make fun of me. He just said he liked me. Why is he being so cold?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Maybe something is going on his life that has nothing to do with you and he’s reacting to that or projecting his feelings onto you. 😉

[Taylorford]

My crush doesn’t talk to me as much as he used to! He used to tell me things about him self all of the time and he would start talking to me as soon as he got into class, now he only picks on me. Like today I was asking a girl to help me do something and I told her I would give her money for it, and then he looked at the girl and said, “I’ll give you more if you do mine and not hers.” He’s always listening to my conversations, but he doesn’t ever talk to me anymore:(

[April Masini, your AskApril]

He may have lost interest. 😳

[Taylorford]

My friend said he was staring at me while I was doing my work today

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Awesome!

[Taylorford]

What are some easy body language signs that a boy likes you?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

He’ll look at you and hold your gaze. He’ll smile at you and hold his smile. He’ll come over to you when he sees you. He’ll become more animated when he’s around you.

[Taylorford]

This is completely unrelated to this about a guy liking me. Anytime he sees me he always stares! Whenever I’m walking to Chemistry he walks in front of me and he turns his whole body around just to look at me. He doesn’t want me, but why does he keep staring?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Because he likes you. It’s what guys do when they like you. 🙂

[Taylorford]

What do I say to a guy to make him interested? We don’t know each other very well, but I think he likes me. He’s stares at me a lot and when he leaves the classrooms he takes extra time to look at me before he leaves. How do I talk to him, what do I say?

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