So, I met this guy back in January on a dating website. We had great conversation and kicked it off very well. We eventually got the the point where he said we should go out for drinks. I gave him my number and he called the very next day. I didn’t know it was him so I didn’t answer, then he text me right after. We started talking then a week later we met for drinks, that went well. We continued to talk and a few weeks later we went out to a little comedy club. After the show I asked what he was doing. He said he was going home to watch some movies. I was invited, I went. We watched two movies, fell asleep, woke up and had an intimate encounter. The next morning, we chatted for a while then I went home. I didn’t know how to feel after that but he called me so, I knew he had to want more than sex. We continued to hang more but the texting and calling started to slack. I guess that’s because we were spending more time together.
Then one week, he went out of town for training for his job, we talked the whole week while he was gone but when the weekend came, he was ghost. I texted, called and nothing. So I sent a really mean message and told him that I would just delete his number since he didn’t want to respond. He called me later that day and explained that he had to work that Saturday and he was just tired. I also asked what we were trying to do/be. He said friends trying to get to know each other and see where it goes. I accepted that because he pretty much said that we are going to see where things lead and that made sense because we were still getting to know one another. But then the following weekend he did the same thing and I texted and called and nothing. I didn’t trip until that Sunday when I saw that he had been online and on the dating site we met on. I couldn’t figure out why he had time to go online but not respond back to me. So I texted another mean message and even went as far as sending him a message on the website. I was that mad.
After that, I did not hear from him for two weeks. I thought in my head that it was really over this time. But the third week I just sent a message and said hey, how have you been and he responded back. We have been texting back and forth since but only like 2-3 times a week. He just recently started back calling me the pet names he use to when we were on good terms. Even though he has started back calling me sweet names and what not, we have not made plans to hang out or anything. I know he says that he is still working crazy hours at his job but that’s all I know. I felt like we are getting back to a good place but I don’t know what he wants. Is he being cautious because he thinks I will go off on him again, so he’s taking it slow? Does he still want to try and build something with me?
