[Lakers3]

I was talking to this girl for 5 months and irecently told her how I felt and then she said “my bad ray ima reply to it rn its just these kids I’m baby sitting rn” and she never did that night and then the next morning I asked how she felt and she said she will write it in her notepad then copy and paste and she still hasn’t and that was a week ago. I asked her yesterday to hang out with her today and she said ohh sure when and i said 3rd period and we were talking and stuff and she was know im sorta shy and she said “don’t worry just be your self if u are shy i understand” and i said alright and then she said “Crazy like we actually gonna meet face to face and smoke tommrow but its cool lol” and she was doing most of the talking today and she was putting her body sorta towards me but not all the way and she didnt really hold eye contact. I justed asked her if she was shy when we met up and she said Uhmm kinda i guess lol Does it seem like she likes me?

[Ask April Masini]

Yes.

[Lakers3]

About a month after we started talking i asked for her number and she said sorry but i only give it to family and i said oh its all good but recently i told her this “Hey u know how we havent really talked much in person well i was thinking that we can exchange numbers so we can be more comfortable talking to each other in person and so we can talk more?” and she said “Yea but ppl just usually come UP to me n talk to me like idk if u ever see but yea I’m cool with it but oh sure but just so u know I don’t really like talking on the phone so , but my numbers 916″and she gave me the rest of number. I called her today and we talked and she mentiom that “its a mircale becuase i just usually answer family” and she said she had to go but she said “i gtg ray but u can text me later if you want” do u think she wants me to talk to her in person and how high do u think her attraction level is to me?

[Ask April Masini]

I don’t know if she’s attracted to you because you haven’t asked her out. If you will, then you’ll know — and you won’t have to ask me! 😉

[Lakers3]

I asked her how does she does she feel about me and she says she sees me as a friend. She said before she dates someone she needs to be around and they have to come up to her and talk. She use to tell me to talk to her before cuz she knew i was shy. But when me and her smoked together like twice she wouldnt make eye contact with me but she did most of the talking. Those times we smoked and the time i hugged her and the time i call her on the phone the next day her bestfriend stares at me and smiles then look at her.When she met my friend she made eye contact but ik she has no interest in him. My friend ask her for a pipe and she gave it to me and told her dont leave it with anyone else but you. Do u think she wants me to talk to her more in person and if i do talk more in person is possible i have a chance? And why would her friend stare at me them smile at her?

[Ask April Masini]

[quote]Do u think she wants me to talk to her more in person and if i do talk more in person is possible i have a chance? [/quote]

Yes.

[quote]And why would her friend stare at me them smile at her?[/quote]

Because she was in a good mood.

[Ethan Morales]

She likes you a little, but she’s not fully sure what to do with it yet. There’s a mix of flirting and friendliness in what she’s doing. She’s comfortable talking about personal stuff, which means she trusts you. That’s a green light but not a full “she’s into you” signal yet.

The moment she said “you’re really cool and a good friend,” that’s where you’ve got to pay attention. That line can mean two things: she either genuinely thinks you’re sweet but not bold enough to make a move, or she’s quietly testing if you’ll step up and show confidence. Right now, you’re sitting right on the fence between “potential boyfriend” and “safe buddy.”

The talk about kissing and hickies? That’s not random. That’s flirt bait. She’s putting it out there to see how you react. If you laugh it off or act too shy, she’ll think you’re not interested. If you respond with a calm, confident smile maybe a playful tease she’ll take the hint that you’re interested.

What you’re missing here isn’t attraction it’s momentum. You’ve been nice, respectful, and careful, but she’s waiting for a spark. Women don’t want bad boys, they want confident men who know what they want.

So yeah she probably does like you, but she’s not going to chase you. You need to set the tone now. Keep it easy, light, and direct:

“You’re fun to talk to I think we’d have a great time if we hung out. You down to grab something this weekend?”

If she says yes, it’s on. If she says no or gives you a vague answer, you’ll know it’s time to move on instead of hanging in the “almost” zone.

[Val Unfiltered💋]

babe… she’s flirting lite all talk, no commitment. 😏😬 the “i get shy too” and the kissing stories? that’s her testing the waters without jumping in. she likes the attention, not the pressure.
match her tone, tease a little, then pull back. mystery’s hotter than begging for a signal. play it cool and let her wonder if you’re the good kisser. 😉💋

[Maria]

She clearly likes you, but she’s also nervous and testing the waters. When a girl calls herself shy or boring, it’s not rejection—it’s insecurity. She’s afraid of being judged, so she lowers the bar first. The song she sent might have confused you, but it doesn’t mean she’s closing the door. It just means she’s unsure of what she wants right now.

If you want to know where you really stand, stop trying to read every signal and just ask her out confidently. Not “as friends,” not halfway—just a simple, genuine invite. Girls respond to clarity. If she says yes, you’ll know her feelings are real. If she hesitates, then at least you’ll stop wondering.

Tell me, do you think your hesitation is about her feelings, or are you scared of hearing a clear answer either way?

[PassionSeeker]

It sounds like she didn’t actually say yes yet she’s being friendly and flirty, but she’s also waiting for you to take the lead and make your intentions clear. 😊

When a girl likes you but doesn’t give a straight answer, it’s usually because she’s unsure of how serious you are. You’ve both been talking a lot, but until you confidently say, “Hey, I’d really like to take you out — how about a movie this weekend?” she’s not going to treat it like a real date.

So instead of guessing what she meant, take charge and ask again directly and with a smile. If she says yes, great! You’ve got your answer. If she hesitates or gives excuses, that’s your answer too. Either way, you’ll know where you stand and that’s always better than waiting and wondering. 😉

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