[Miguel]

Hey Everyone,
I’m Miguel, 24 and I’ve been dating a girl for a couple months. We hang out a few times a week, text every day, and I really like her… but I’m not really sure if she likes me too or what she’s looking for.
She seems super into spending time with me and we have a lot of fun but she hasn’t said anything about being exclusive or what she wants. Sometimes I worry she might just want something casual, while I’m hoping for something more serious.
I don’t want to scare her off by asking too soon but I also don’t wanna keep putting in time if we’re not on the same page.
How do you figure out if someone wants something serious or just casual… without making it awkward?

[Bryer Rocky]

Girl meets, has fun, but doesn’t call for “exclusivity”? This means she is enjoying the buffet but doesn’t want to finalize the menu. If after two months the girl hasn’t given any signal, then there are high chances that you are just a placeholder for her until a better option is found.
You are terrified that you’ll scare her away. But the truth is, when someone truly loves you or is serious about you, a question like “What are we?” doesn’t frighten them; it actually brings them peace. He’s only afraid because, deep down, you already know the answer might be ‘No
I think you should pull back a little. When you are always available, the next guy doesn’t feel the need for commitment because he is getting everything for free.
Anyway, if the girl were actually serious, you wouldn’t need to ask this on this forum. Silence is also a message, and you are simply failing to read it right now!

[Marco]

If you want an honest answer, you should ask her directly. But to be honest, it’s still too early. For now, you should put in more effort—dating really works that way.
Nothing is guaranteed at the start, but what’s clear is that you need to invest first. It’s rare for things to become serious instantly. In your case, you really need to invest time, energy, and even money.

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