[eswizz]

I played on a co-ed softball team last year with some friends and their friends. One of the girls on the team that I met and had never hung out with, invited me to her birthday party last weekend on facebook, where we chatted for awhile. At first I said I couldn’t go because I had to work but I ended up taking the night off and surprised her. Later in the night I bought her a drink when it was just us two and we started talking and she was glued to my side the rest of the night. She told me how she had a crush on me for a long time and was super happy I made it. We talked about going out again and hanging out before softball started again.We held hands and even kissed at the end of the night after exchanging phone numbers. The next day we texted and she said she didn’t remember much but still wanted to hang out. So we went out to dinner and this week and we were hitting it off. when I dropped her off we ran to the door (it was raining out side) and we stepped inside where her Mom was home. we hugged and no kiss(the opportunity wasn’t there). How should I take this? Was that just drunk talk on her birthday or does she really like me?

She had a lot of friends there but chose to hang out with me for an hour and half on her birthday.

Thanks!
forgot to add one thing, it was her 21st Bday and she was a little tipsy,and she did apologize for not remembering and asked if she did anything embarrassing, I said no. But I was just unsure if she actually meant what she said that night.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Yes, she likes you! She went out to dinner with you — ask her out on a second date! 🙂 If she says yes, you’ll feel more confident. Make the date romantic, and step up your show of affection.

Let me know how it goes, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

[eswizz]

Thank you for the response. I did ask her out for a second date last night. I told her that I had a great time the other night and asked her if she wanted to do something on Sunday or another day next week(I did this through texting which probably isn’t the best way). She replied with “Yea I did to. Okay yea for sure, ill let ya know when im free”. So I said “Sounds Good”.

Do you think that I should wait until she contacts me before I talk to her again, to see if she is really interested? I guess I am a bit confused because in the past after a couple dates, the girl has texted me on my way home telling me that she had a great time.

Thanks for the advice!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I want you to buy and read the book I wrote for men, Date Out of Your League: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. It’s going to help you with a lot of questions I think you have.

Until you do read it, you should ask her out again. You seem to need a lot of reassurance that she likes you, but clearly, she does! Try feeling more comfortable taking the lead. Women are attracted to men who are confident. If you start acting more confident, she’ll be more interested, and you’ll feel more at ease in the relationship! 😉

I hope that helps. Read the book and let me know what you think after you do!

See you @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 🙂

[eswizz]

Great thank you! I will buy that book tonight. I did ask her out again and she agreed and said she’ll tell me when she is free. That’s the only real thing that bugged me, that I have to wait for her to get back to me now. I have only had two real girlfriends and I am 26. It’s not that I haven’t met women, because I have been on many dates with different women. Its just that I really really like this one like my other two girlfriends when I met them, we get along great and have a lot in common. Its not that I am picky, its that when I fall for a girl, I fall fast. The only downfall is she just turned 21 however she isn’t a big partier.

Thanks again!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

The book downloads immediately, so click on the link: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url] and buy it — and read it. It’s going to help you a lot and then I can help you with specifics. But read the book first before you ask me more questions that can be answered there.

I look forward to hearing back from you!

See you as well on Facebook at this link: [url][/url] and @AskAprilcom on Twitter. 😀

[eswizz]

Hello, I read your book today and I found some parts really interesting. I would have to say that once I am on a date I am fine. I do all the right gentleman things that you talked about. The problem that I have is reading them, if they really like and if they want to go on another date. As you can see from my posts, the girl that I went out with last Tuesday, I can not read. She said she liked me(after a few drinks) and went on a date with me and told me she had a great time and would like to do it again. Well I made the mistake of leaving it up to her to decide when she is “free” . And now I have not heard anything for over a week. And now I’m not sure if I should contact her again, since she said that she would let me know when shes free. What do you think, is she just trying to avoid me or is she playing hard to get? I would like to call her later today and ask her to go out on Sunday.

Thanks!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Read the book again! Seriously. The questions you’re asking me are answered in there. 😀

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