I have been seeing my guy for 3 months, exclusively about six weeks. It has been extremely rocky. When things are good, they are wonderful. When it’s bad, it’s bad.
He has numerous double standards, which bother me. The most recent to come up is how we relate to past partners. I was still casually dating 3 months ago. I did sleep with my ex 3 months ago, again while my current guy and I were just dating. I expressed “I’m just dating.” It was never a secret. My guy recently found out about this – the timeframe of when I last slept with my ex. My guy has always been more serious about me than I him. However, anytime he gets upset with me, he runs to another female. Less than a month ago, we were fighting and I refused to have sex. He went and slept with a woman he had met less than a week prior. To him, it was my fault he slept with her. She was led to believe there would be more. I made him end the relationship, which he told me he did. However, he needed hundreds of dollars I did not have and he called her 2 days ago and borrowed the money from her.
I am extremely frustrated because he demanded I cut off everything with my ex. But, for him it is okay to maintain a relationship with someone he slept with less than 30 days ago, to the point of borrowing money. In my mind, for her to say yes quickly, something still had to be going on. Am I overreacting?
