Long story short met this guy in November. I like him a lot but we both played a lot if games with (won’t go into details) each other, which I started unfortunately. He said he thought it could be more between us. Last weekend saw him while I was out I completely ignored him and talked to other guys while he was there because we agreed not to get jealous.I was giving my number to another guy and he comes up and said “she’s not going to call you bro, she’s coming home with me”. I said no I’m not and I started to walk away and meanwhile another guy is trying to talk to me and I look back and the guy I like is following me. He gets incredibly angry and says he wants to knock the other guy out, I said but “we’re not exclusive like you said remember?” He said I thought we were working towards being exclusive and kept begging me to come home with him, but I said no and went home.
He called me 4 times, texted me which I all ignored, he asked for me to come over I said no. I didn’t hear from all week after that the then tells me we should stop hanging out because he doesn’t want to hurt me, this won’t ever be more and that we could be just friends with benefits because he’s going to continue to see other girls. I am so in shock right now and just hurt and confused. What happened? Is there a way to fix this?
**I slept with him for the first time two days before ignoring him at the bar**
Side note, he NEVER admits to his feelings, even when he wanted to knock out the guy at the bar he still wouldn’t admit that he was jealous/didn’t like me talking to other guys. He always asks me about my ex and other guys who I am texting but just says he’s asking not because he cares but because he’s “curious” which I know isn’t true. My friends said that he seems insecure.
Did I just severely hurt his ego or what? What happened? How do I fix this?
