[Anonymous]

I have been dating this guy for almost 6 months now… n before me .. he had a lot of flings and literally was teased to be the flirt in his group…trying to get every girl…but now he has commited to me, and we are doing good.. the only problem is ther is this one girl on facebook, who i kno too… whose every pik he likes… shes on my list too so i can see everything happening.. i told him i dont like it, but he dint reply so i thought he wudnt do it again… but he did it again just today ( 2days after me tellin him!!) Am i overreacting? Ps i get a feelin she likes the attention too.. and tries to keep chatting up with him by sayin stuff that provokes him to reply…( But he has always been a people pleaser) what do I do?
Its driving me crazy!
please help…

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Don’t try and control him by telling him that his liking another girl’s pictures is bothering you. Sometimes giving something that bothers you NO extra attention is a lot more effective than giving it negative attention. 😉 Next, instead of complaining about his being interested in another woman, give him something in you to be interested in! Again, stop giving negative attention to a problem and instead be proactive to try and draw his attention back to you! 🙂

If he’s a people pleaser, that can be a chronic problem that you’re not going to change, and instead have to decide if you’re compatible given this quality he has. If you decide to date him, don’t try to change him. Instead, understand who he is, and know that every day you have a choice to go out with him or not!

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