[Chriscross]

I like this girl and I am a transgendered teen (i am ftm, female to male). I like her a lot and I see her everyday because I am in an all girls boarding school. I present as male when I can (after school/clubs and on weekends). I talk to her when I can (I can sometimes be a Little strange). Basically, is this a no hoper ?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You don’t know unless you try. 😉 I know that the idea of rejection is scary, but there’s no good way around that risk. If you get to know her further, and she, you, you may find a relationship there – or she may decide you’re not her cup of tea (or vice versa), and that rejection is a gift because it allows you to change your direction and not pursue someone who’s uninterested, and use that energy to look elsewhere. 🙂

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[Chriscross]

I see what you mean. However I really don’t want things to get out of hand. I might ask to go to a history museum near the school but not call it a ‘date’. Though, truthfully, I’m scared that she’ll reject me only cause my body is of a girl.
What is the best way to ask her out and tell her I’m trans?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you don’t want to ask her out on a date, but you do want to invite her to go to a museum with you, just ask her if she’d like to go. And while you’re talking with her and getting to know each other, tell her that you’re transgendered.

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