[Anonymous]

hI,

recently found out my girlfriend posed nude for some magazines, open legged, shaved etc. I obviously felt a bit gutted, but have spoken about it and she said she didnt feel used or cheap, she actually felt really sexy. I said she looked amazing in the magazine, but i wasnt happy that anyone can see her bits. But also mentioned it could be a sexy thing we did together, (we wouldnt even need to have a film in the camera.

She said she is not keen on this, well basically said no. It kills me that she did this infront of someone, and wont do it in front of me.

Any advice.

Regards

[Ask April Masini]

By posing professionally, your girlfriend may legitimately have felt distanced from her sexuality in a way that pretend posing with you as part of a real sexual and romantic relationship may make her uncomfortable. There are people who are incredibly outgoing in real life and extremely shy in the bedroom and likewise, folks who are extremely shy in the real world, but voracious when it comes to a sexual relationship.

My advice is not to press her on this one issue, but instead, get to know her more, and see if there are other fantasy areas that intrigue you that aren’t necessarily offensive or uncomfortable for her.

I hope that helps — let me know how things go. And don’t forget to join me on AskApril.com on Facebook. I’d love to see you there. Here’s the link: [url][/url].

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