[Anonymous]

Hi,

I am really in a lot of pain right now. My boyfriend of 3 years and I are now on a break up because our fighting was brought to the next level and got really violent and devastating. I love him, and the idea of our break up was to cool off, and re-evalue what we both want. I find timing with us is just off.

However, a few days after our break up, I kissed another guy. There was no feelings there and would not happen again, but I think I did it because I could being single. The other guy tried to do more than kiss, but I shut it down and left.

I know it’s always best to be honest, but I think if my ex boyfriend found out, he would be hurt, even though we are still broken up. He has done a lot to hurt me too, and I know how it feels and I don’t want to hurt him if it’s not necssary.

Should I tell? or Shouldnt I tell?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You should not tell your ex-boyfriend that you kissed another guy because, frankly, if you’re not together any more, it’s none of his business. 😯 Telling him would just incite negative feelings, and because you wrote that you have a history that is “violent and devastating” with him, it’s time to start moving away from him. This break up is a good step. 😀

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