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Okay now let’s say that you’re single, and you’re at the mall with three of your friends. Let’s say that, a fairly attractive guy walks up to you and your friends while you are sitting down in the food court, and he tells you that “I just wanted to let you know that you look beautiful” to you, and you say “thank you” to him, then he says “you’re welcome” and goes back to joining his group of friends. Well let’s say that five minutes later and is very polite, and says that it is really unlike him to do something like this, then he hands you a piece of paper with his Facebook profile URL and e-mail address on it, and he tells you his name. Then you shake hands with him and tell him your name, and he goes back to join his friends again. Would you send him a friend request and/or message on Facebook? Would you just ignore it and not contact him at all? Or would you look him up on Facebook to investigate, and then take things from there?

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

If you’re at all interested in him, then my advice is to send him a message, but not a friend request. You want the guy to chase you, and ideally, he would have asked for your contact information, but since he gave you his, you can let him know it was nice meeting him and it’s always a good day when a cute guy gives you his Facebook information! That way you’re flirting with him, without chasing him. Then see if he pursues you. If he does, then you’ve given him the incentive to do so. If he doesn’t, then he’s probably out giving his Facebook information to other girls in malls. 😆

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