[clueless]

I like this guy that is a grade level above me, which isn’t a big deal. However him being able to go to prom he’s taking one of his friends that is a girl in his grade. They’re going together and I occasionally see them walking together in the halls but his bio on Instagram says single so I believe they’re only going as friends. Would it be wrong for me to try and go after this guy if he has the possibility of already talking to someone? Also, how should I show interest or make him notice me? We already know OF each other but nothing more and haven’t talked before.

[AskApril Masini]

Definitely flirt with him. Flirting is the way you can show him, without telling him, that you’re interested. It’s a lot less awkward than telling him because it’s lighter. It’s all about smiling at him (a lot), laughing at his jokes, complimenting him, asking him questions about things — and basically showing him that you’re interested and you think he’s great. He’ll notice you, believe me! If he’s interested, he’ll respond with interest and even mutual flirting. Then, the ball’s in his court to invite you to do something together.

Hope that helps! 🙂

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