Hey april,
let me tell the story from the beginning:
i am into my lecturer. (well, he is actually the co-lecturer of one of my classes at univversity. he just graduated and overtakes the class, when my lecturer does not have time to hold the lecture.)
when i noticed, i liked him, i tried to avoid him. so, i had never asked him any questions (related to our “work subject”). when he saw me, he always reacted very strange: he looked at me, but didnt say “hy”, smile or anything….he was just looking.
now: a couple of days ago, i went to a formal event at our university. there were a couple of speakers holding speeches and between those speeches, there were always breaks of about 15-30 min.
during those breaks, i went out of the building…..he and his friends also went out….he stared at me sometimes and tried to hear, what i was talking about with my friends.
after the event, he was behind the bar, offering drinks to the guests….so i went there to get something to drink; he looked at me…no “hy”, no smile…nothing (like always).
hence, i started talking to a girl, which also stood behind the bar. all of a sudden, he went by, telling her not to talk to me in informal language. (which she actually not did…)
then…..he kept on ignoring me.
at the end of the evening, i approached him, asking him a question related to our subject at university. at first, he said, i didnt know, and turned around….suddenly, he turned back towards me, asking me a question (related to my question) and talked a bit to me…..he seemed very nervous: pulling up his sleeves, touching his face.
so, thats about it. now, i am wondering, wether he likes me or just cant stand me. hopefully, you can help me!
