[MonikaR200]

I met this amazing guy a year ago and we spent the whole day together and really hit it off, I was into him, he was into me, and he asked me for my number at the end of the night and for some reason I freaked out and dodged it, my sister was nearby and it felt weird with here there. The point is, I didn’t see him after then, and I regretted it soo bad, this being a year ago. Yesterday I saw him on the train when I was with my friend. She said that when we walked into the cart him and all of his friends looked up at us and the same thing happened as we were leaving. I left the train and made eye contact with said guy, and I know he recognized me. I feel the same regret I felt a year ago and I really want to talk to him, my friend said she would add him on Facebook for me, but I don’t know that it will do anything, I don’t have my own Facebook and I know the whole situation is hopeless and a lost cause but I really want to talk to him, I can’t get that night out of my head and really don’t know what to do…

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Regret is a terrible feeling. It’s worse than rejection. And if you want to stop feeling so badly, you have to change your behavior and your outlook. Instead of seeing things as hopeless, do something differently. If you don’t have a social media account, get one! Someone is offering to help you connect with him and you’re simply sitting on your hands and playing the victim. You shot this guy down once, and every time you see him and don’t say hello, he’s going to feel like you really don’t like him. Show him otherwise. 😎

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