[singlelife]

i started out great! we had fun, then he told me he really liked me. we talked and did many things like movies and new years together! that is when sparks really flew. we kissed when the ball dropped, and i could tell he liked it because he then kissed me again and in front of my mom. couple of weeks passed everything seemed ok. then he told me he was dating someone. i was crushed! i asked him why he didnt ask me out if he liked me, his response was he wanted me to finish high school go to college and get a good job. he wanted me to do the things i wanted to do. well i have my job, i finished high school, just started college and still nothing! he has hung around for two years but still with someone else. he said he is unhappy with her and you can tell he is. but when he is near me he seems better. what do i do? does he really care or is he just keeping me around just incase she leaves?

sincerly,
singlelife

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Actions speak louder than words, and while that phrase may be a cliche, it’s true! Your crush may talk the talk, but he sure isn’t walking the walk, and unless he asks you out, he’s not interested in you.

You, however, have the world at your fingertips. You’ve graduated high school and started college. You have all kinds of opportunities to meet men who want you! So why waste time with this talker? You’re better than this! 😉

Put your energy into yourself, and start flirting and assessing other men, and don’t you dare settle for someone who doesn’t treat you like a girlfriend! This is a great season to start looking for men to date who meet your standards of what a good boyfriend should be. So go to the parties, stand under the mistletoe and put yourself out there where all those good guys who want a girlfriend can see you! 🙂

[singlelife]

thank you for the help. i wanted to hear that things coul change but i knew that was not the case. thank you and i will keep looking.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

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