I’m in this relationship nearly 3 years
After 6 months I upped and moved country to be with him and work his business – in the first 3 months I lost a lot of weight from stress – being unsettled and working 24/7 for him
Now nearly 3 years in – I moved out to my own apartment a year ago as living with him too difficult but we are still together – sort of .
We don’t go on holiday together – this year I bought my own birthday cake – he doesn’t believe in birthdays – valentines – christmas or anniversaries .
He is not Interested in my life – never asks me questions or listens when I talk
Calls me late to come stay at mine – we only ever watch his types of movies – falls asleep within 10 minutes
We have had sex once in 6 months – just a quick one – I am not allowed kiss or make a move on him – he can only initiate
He drinks a lot and will a use me verbally in front of people regularly – I’m always on edge at work (it’s a bar/restaurant) that he will get drunk and the smallest thing will make him explode (e.g. I gave him 5 coins as had no notes in till as change – he thre them back at me in front of customers)
Oh I could go on and on
I’m stuck – don’t kno what to do
