It sounds like your fiance of seven years has a thing for overweight women that you didn’t know about. Since you’ve been with him for seven years and you’re just finding this out now, it would be interesting for you to know if this is a new fetish he’s just gotten interested in or something that’s been his interest all along and that you just never figured out. If it’s the latter, there may be other things about him you should probably get to know before getting married.
But don’t go crazy just yet. He didn’t cheat on you, and men are visual creatures. So if this was a normally weighted woman, it might not be as odd or disturbing for you. When you talk to him about this new discovery about his sexual interest you’ve made, don’t put him on the defensive. Remember that he hasn’t really done anything wrong. Give him a forum in which he can talk to you honestly about his feelings and his interests without feeling judged.
I hope that helps — let me know what happens.
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