[tyshay]

I am a 19 year old freshman in college, and i am in need of some relationship advice. Okay, starting off i have known this guy named Max for almost 6 months now and hes a year younger than me, we’ve been through everything, and we are sexually attracted to each other but for some reason he hasnt tried to make me his girlfriend, we talk everyday and when i come visit when were together its like were a couple and i need help figuring out what exactly is this “relationship” i have with him. Seconf, while ive been in school ive met this guy named timmy he plays basketball and hes so sexy im so attracted to him but from the beginning i started to realize he just wants sex and i thought it was a joke but everytime he comes over thats all he wants and he also wants me to send him naked pictures (which i didnt) and i did give him oral, and afterwards i felt nasty, but i kept seeing him and i only did oral twice, he wanted to come over tonight and i basically was fed up and ended things with him, i met this guy named tony and hes the perfect guy the one guy i would marry weve been flirting and i finally asked one day and he told me hes in a relationship, eventhough he is in a relationship i do look at him as a friend now, but its like this no matter what guys i attract i can never find the one guy who is single not trying to use me and who wants me.. what tips do you have for me to find that right guy

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

First of all, dating is a numbers game. The more often you get out there and meet guys, or date them, the more likely you’ll find the right one. But it’s not going to happen without you putting in the work. And I can tell that you are, but you’re looking for a better result. Be patient, and keep at it. 😉

So, second, if you find someone isn’t boyfriend material, move on and don’t bother friend zoning him. If you hang out with guys who are just friends, it’s harder to feel really single, which isn’t always comfortable, but it is the best way to be available!

Third, understand that not all 18 or 19 year old guys are experienced enough to feel comfortable asking you out, and many of them are virgins, too, so they’re a little nervous about being with someone they perceive as not being a virgin and being interested in sex. So with your friend Max, don’t be so available to him so he’ll miss you enough to get motivated to ask you out. If you’re always there, he’s got no motivation.

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