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    abbyrae1
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    Hello,
    My boyfriend of 3 years just broke up with me because he said he was not sexually attracted to me. This took me by surprise because we had a happy and strong relationship. I am very upset and am struggling to deal with this while he is going on with his life like he is not affected or sad at all. He is also telling his friends that he does not feel like we are going to get back together. but when I recently talked to him it was as if nothing changed and we were still together. I am just very confused and would like some advice on as to why he is acting/saying these things and if we have a chance of getting back together. Thank you so much!

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    If he broke up with you because he is not sexually attracted to you, and you want to get him back, you need to ramp up your sex appeal. 😎 Consider that there is merit in what he’s saying, and since you’re still in touch, there may still be opportunity to make things work out. Your sex life is important, and it sounds like while you thought it was fine, he didn’t. In addition, he may be looking for sexual feelings he wasn’t getting in the relationship, and if there are ways you could, or still can, nurture them for him, you should.

    Figure out where you can make yourself more appealing, and then, where and how you can make him feel more sexual around you. Sexy dates like a couples massage — either at a spa, having a masseuse come into your home, or giving each other massages, with thick, fluffy towels and some chilled wine or a summery cocktail is bound to kickstart things. That’s just one example, but you can adjust it to your own lifestyle — whatever you chose to do, focus on being sexy and creating the sexual mood that he felt was missing. 😉

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