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Okay so me and my ex bf as of yesterday were REALLY close. He says he loves me but isn’t in love with me, he misses me already, he cares about me so much and thats why he can finally leave me. He says “I know tomorrow is going to be the worst day because I’ll realise that we’re done.” He says all of this. Before I leave his house after he breaks up with me he makes me hug and kiss him for a last time. He says he won’t come back.. I don’t believe that!

I need advise to get him back! I cut off all contact with him. He texted me tonight.. This is the following convo
Him: Hi
Me: Hi
Him: How ya holding up?
Me: Good how about you
Him: Alright. Just care ya know.
Me: I know thanks.

no reply. and i don’t want to send another reply. What do i do !!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

He’s taking care of himself — not you. It’s going to be hard for you to take care of yourself if he keeps lingering like this, and he’s not taking care of you by doing so, so my advice is to go cold turkey. If you want, you can send him one last text that says you won’t be accepting or responding to his messages any more because it’s going to help you to move on and that you hope he’ll respect that. And then do it. 🙁

Break ups hurt, but if you take care of yourself and surround yourself with supportive and healthy friends and family, stay busy and nurture the person you want to become, you’re going to do fine with some time. 😉

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