[Anonymous]

Hi April,

My boyfriend and I have recently been dating, 1month, and I’m not sure if I’m “in the right” to be upset with him because he’s “withdrawn” from our relationship. He says its because he’s busy, but it’s not that hard or takes that much effort to send me a text telling me at least how he’s doing. It doesn’t help that he’s become distant right after we had sex. I haven’t even seen him for 3 weeks, and he lives within 5 miles near me! I even try to set up dates so I could met up with him, just to catch a glimpse of him, and it seems like he doesn’t even care. My feelings and emotions are so jumbled up that I can’t even think clearly. My mind is telling me to break it off because he obviously doesn’t give a shit about me anymore, but my heart’s resisting. Any advice?

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[AskApril Masini]

He’s not interested. 🙁 I’m sorry you’re hurt, but you have to understand that you’ve only been dating for one month, and you said you haven’t seen him for 3 weeks! 😯 That means that as he’s gotten to know you, he’s decided you’re not for him. A guy who wants to be with you will call you, ask you out, send you flowers and basically woo you. He’s not doing that. Rejection isn’t personal. It’s actually a great way for you to not waste your time with someone who isn’t going to be your boyfriend or your husband. And remember — there will be plenty of guys who you’ll reject because they’re not your cup of tea, either.

So, stop chasing him. It’s not working (it never does). Instead, move on and find someone who is Mr. Right, and since I’m not sure you know what that looks like, read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you have the advantage of knowing how to GET the guy — not chase him away. 😳

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