[Anonymous]

I have been dating my bf for 3 yrs. The last year everything has gone down hill. He never takes me out, we just go home to home. Frankly i’m getting bored of it. I just put it behind me because i knw he does not have much money to spend as it he has to support his mother and himself. His mother does not work.Sometimes i get irrated with his mother, because i feel as if she’s selfish.
Our sex live is not great at all.
He always says no to sex. He says that its the same routine, when i try to make it different he does not want to. I have tried everything still no change. I have spoken to him about it. He says he’s getting annoyed with me. So i have decided to leave it. We both stay at home. He only wants to when he’s in the mood.
I find myself beening annoyed at him, as the relationship is not progessing. I feel as if i’m not beeing fullfilled, hes more than a freind than a bf.
I’m independent of him, i try not to expect too much from him. I need your help i dont want to nag him anymore.
I need some advice please

[April Masini, your AskApril]

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[Anonymous]

what is it with grown men living with their mothers. ???? too many broken homes where the mother take custody and the father isn’t there to TEACH HOW TO BE A MAN!!! c’mon! really, to all mothers out there with sons…let their fathers teach them how to be men. it will really save a lot of other women from woosies!!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Hey, now! It’s not fair to heap the blame on men for this problem. Frankly, mothers have just as much responsibility to raise their sons as fathers do! A mother should not take in her adult son for any kind of long term, lazy reason. Nobody held a gun to this mother’s head. She should tell her son he’s a man and he needs to act like one — by getting his own apartment! In fact, maybe the father DID tell his son to go get an apartment and live on his own — because I don’t see this guy living with his dad. Maybe his dad was actually a good parent and said no! 😉

Now, for women who date men who live at home…. what are you thinking?! 😯 Unless there’s some very good reason for a man to be living with his mother (like a crisis or emergency situation), a grown man living with his mother is NOT boyfriend or husband material. So don’t waste your time dating guys who live at home and then complain about them.

Date [b]smart[/b] and don’t blame anyone — but yourself!

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[Anonymous]

good point there!! 😛 [quote=”April Masini”]Now, for women who date men who live at home…. what are you thinking?! 😯 Unless there’s some very good reason for a man to be living with his mother (like a crisis or emergency situation), a grown man living with his mother is NOT boyfriend or husband material. So don’t waste your time dating guys who live at home and then complain about them.

Date [b]smart[/b] and don’t blame anyone — but yourself!

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[April Masini, your AskApril]

Thank you, [b]guesthere[/b]!

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