I met a girl at a bar when I was hanging out with my friends two weeks ago. I got her number and social media account, and we started texting and calling each other.
Right now, I can say that we’re still in the getting-to-know-each-other stage, but I know that I’m slowly starting to fall for her because she’s sweet and caring when we text.
How can I tell if she’s serious about me or just flirting?
You’re probably still in the getting-to-know-each-other stage, so she might not be serious yet. Why don’t you try asking her out on a date so you can get closer to her and know her better?
Maybe if you do that, you’ll be the one who can tell whether she’s serious or just flirting.
It’s hard to tell since you’re still in the getting-to-know stage. It would be better to invite her on a date so you can find out whether she is serious or not.
Ask her out if you really like her. Don’t overthink yet whether she’s serious or just flirting—you’ve only just met, so try not to expect too much from her at this point.
If she is just flirting, then handle it through sincere and respectful courtship so that her playful interest in you can gradually turn into something more serious. That’s really all there is to it.
Is it still important to know whether he’s serious or just flirting? Why don’t you try inviting him out so you can really get the answers to your questions?
Because honestly, it’s also up to you how you handle it—whether he’s serious or just flirting. It’s up to you how you choose to deal with him, whether you treat it seriously or just as flirting.
