I met a girl on a dating app, and we met in person after chatting there for one month. We’ve been dating for almost 3 months now, but since last week, it feels like she has slowly started changing toward me.
Sometimes when I invite her to eat out or watch a movie, she turns me down and says she already has other plans. She wasn’t like that before, whenever I asked her out in the past, she would immediately say yes and come with me.
Why do you think that is?
Why did she suddenly lose interest during the dating stage?
Maybe she really does have other plans, and it just happens that your invitations fall on times when she’s not available. Have you tried rescheduling your invites with her or asking when she is available? You could try adjusting your schedule first.
But if things are still the same even after that, I think she may have lost interest in you. Maybe she found someone else that she likes more.
A common reason for a sudden loss of interest, especially when you met someone through dating apps, is that they may have found someone else. It’s possible that even while you are already dating, they are still talking to other people and are not fully committed to you yet.
Have you tried talking to her about her sudden change in mood toward you? Maybe she has a reason that neither of you has clearly understood yet, so it’s better to ask her directly.
If she really has lost interest in you, then it’s best to move on. Nothing good will come out of forcing things. You can’t control it anymore, and if you keep pushing, you’ll just end up getting hurt and wasting your time.
Have you tried talking to him? Maybe he just suddenly got busy. Or you can ask him if you did something that he didn’t like.
If he still doesn’t reply, don’t you have any way to see him in person? At least that way, you can get some closure. You deserve that so you’re not left wondering about what happened.
