[Roxanne]

I’m Roxanne, 26 years old. My ex-boyfriend and I were together for 7 years, but we broke up because he cheated on me. I trusted him so much that I let him do whatever he wanted and never became too strict or controlling with him.
That’s why I was shocked when someone I didn’t know messaged me using a dummy account and told me that my ex-boyfriend had another woman. The person even sent pictures as proof.

I was deeply hurt and immediately broke up with him. Now I want to completely erase him from my life and forget him because he destroyed the trust I gave him.

What do you think is the best way to recover from a breakup and move on?

[Charles]

Just focus on yourself—take care of your appearance, maybe go to the gym, eat healthy foods. In other words, try to become an even better version of yourself now than you were when you were still together with your ex, so you can regain your confidence and realize that he was not a loss to you.
You can also keep yourself busy, go out with friends, and try dating again.

[Roxanne]

Just keep yourself busy so you can move on. Don’t let yourself be alone and just dwell on it, because it will make it harder for you to heal. Go out with friends, focus on yourself, and improve yourself—you’ll even become more confident and attractive. Think that you don’t need to regret him, because he’s not worth it anyway since he cheated.

[Gladzzz]

It’s such a waste of a 7-year “investment,” Roxanne, only to be cheated on by that kind of boyfriend. It’s really heartbreaking. But that’s life—we need to keep moving forward.

For me, the best way for you to recover quickly is to focus on yourself for now and don’t let him have any space in your life anymore. Remove the things that remind you of him as well. Since you also spent 7 years in that relationship, try to spend more time with your family and hang out with your friends.

For now, maybe it’s best to take a break from relationships. The right person will come at the right time—I truly believe in that.

[Ricky]

It hurts, but you don’t deserve to be hurt. What I mean is, your boyfriend is not a good person because he’s a cheater. And I think people like that don’t deserve your tears or your time.
You deserve to move on properly. You’re a good woman, and this is not your loss. Just think that karma will take care of him in the end.

[Member]

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