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How do I get him interested??

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    Hi, I’ll try to keep this short and sweet – I met a man online, we clicked, hung out a few times, things got somewhat physical (think highschool back when lol). He all the sudden went back to his ex to try and work things out, we talked about it and I told him to go ahead, and have no regrets, if there is hope he should see it out, I wouldnt want to be with him if he changed his mind. He went back with her and it lasted a week. He texted me today online, then called me to see how things were going and to apologize for the way things happened. I am out of town so I told him I would talk to him when I get back, he said great and we’ll talk then.
    My question is this….Is he interested again, just because he and his ex didnt work out, and how do I make sure I go about this the right way to give it a great shot?? Should I give him time alone?
    We get along amazingly and both find eachother very attractive, and think we have a lot in common, etc….I just want to make sure it works…Thanks so much, you’re the best!

    #12377

    Yes — he’s interested in you! 🙂

    Don’t worry too much about his having gone back to his ex-girlfriend and then realizing that what he had with her is truly over. That is, unless this boomerang behavior becomes a pattern.

    For now, you should follow ALL my advice as written in Think & Date Like A Man, that you can download here [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], if you want the best advantage. I strongly advise you to invest $15.95 in this book — it’s a VERY small price to pay for what could be a lifetime of happiness as a result.

    Just a very few of the tips from the book that I’d advise you follow until you get reading is to make sure YOU don’t do the asking out or the initiating of any dates. Men want to be the ones who chase the women that they’ve got their eyes on, and feel success when they get them. If you let him be that guy, then he’s going to feel really good about you because you’re giving chase, and allowing him the success of getting you each time he gets a “yes” from you for a date, or a kiss goodnight, a flirtatious moment or a love note thanking him for being in your life.

    Lots of women sabotage relationships by being too forward and thereby taking away the opportunity for the guys to chase them, and by making this mistake, they also don’t know where they stand in the relationship because they haven’t let the guys weigh in by asking the women out on dates. You see, you’ll know how much he likes you by how often he asks you out! So let him do the pursuing, and allow yourself, at the same time, the luxury of knowing where you stand based on his behavior.

    I hope that helps! 😀

    #52690
    Hazley Joy
    Member #382,768

    Just take it slow because I think he’s still interested to you since he reached out and apologized but make sure he will choose you because he love you and he totally moved on with his ex.

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