[Nativechica20]

My ex boyfriend and I have not been together for 4 months now. The reason why we broke up is because he cheated on me with a girl he has known for a while and he also proposed to her. I found out what he did from a friend of his because at the time he was ignoring my phone calls and text messages for like a week or so. And he told all his friends that we had broke up when that was not the case at all. He never told me he wanted us to break up, in fact before he started ignoring me, things were okay between us…well at least that’s what I thought. You see he’s in the navy and we were together for 10 months. For nine of those months though, he had to go on deployment and I was by his side the whole time. We emailed each other just about everyday, and I was faithful to him the entire time while he was gone. So it was just crazy to me to find out from his friend all this information and his friend said he was planning on proposing to the girl months into the deployment. It broke my heart because I really loved him and would have done anything for him. And then when I finally did get a chance to talk to him (my ex), he confessed but by that time it was too late. So now it’s four months later. I haven’t talked to him since I found out everything and he hasn’t talked to me. But I still get angry and upset when someone mentions his name or I hear him and his fiancee are together and happy or I just recently saw pictures of them together and I just wanted to cry. I just don’t understand why he did that to me. I was good to him and our whole relationship was pretty much a lie. How do I get past the hurt and pain? I know I’m better off without him but it just still makes me angry and upset. Please help. Thanks.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Please go back and post this as a “reply” to the original string of posts you already have on this site. I’ll look out for your re-post, and answer your question there, when you do. It’s a lot easier for me to give you better advice when all your information is in one place. 😀

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