Hey, my name’s Frank, I’m 27, and I have been arguing a lot with my girlfriend lately. Even in very small things like what we are going to eat, where we will go or whether we’ll go out on a date, etc. blows up into bigger fights. Sometimes it feels like we are just waiting for the other to say something wrong.
I don’t want my relationship with my girlfriend to fall apart but these constant fights are exhausting and I’m worried it’s starting to hurt what we got. I know some of it’s me reacting badly at the moment but I also feel like we are stuck in this cycle and neither of us knows how to break it.
I want to reduce our arguments and handle them in a way that neither of us ends up frustrated.. How do you even stop constantly arguing before it ruins a relationship?