I keep thinking a lot and I feel like I keep running to the same issues in my past relationships but I’m not sure what I’m referring to. I’m Zoey 29, and I have been in a few serious relationships over the past 8 years. It seems like I always end up with someone who’s not fully available or who pull away when things get serious. I have notice red flags early on but somehow I convince myself it’s “different this time.” I also try to give a lot more than I get and I end up feeling drained and frustrated.I know relationships are not perfect but I feel like there’s something in my own behavior that keeps leading me down this same path. Has anyone else noticed patterns in themselves only after a few heartbreaks? How do you figure out what to work on?