[rose.araceli]

There’s this boy.
We had many classes together. (& college classes at that)
We were lab partners (so I saw him frequently out of class).
I did have an interest in him as being more than a friend, but he was always busy with other things and at times I wasn’t even sure we were friends at all.
But he would still choose to sit next to me in class even though he would no longer say a word to me.

One day I didn’t hold the door open for him as we walked into class because he hadn’t been speaking to me. And he let it close in his face.

Point is, I don’t know what happened. I asked our mutual friend/his best friend and he told me they, “honestly hadn’t talked about it. But he’s a good guy, he really is.”

When we return to school in the fall, he and I will have 4 more courses together.

Based on your opinion, do I continue to ignore him or not? It’s also his birthday soon (a day before mine)…do I wish him a happy birthday or not?

I appreciate your advice. This has been on my mind all summer.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Definitely flirt with him! 😎 This will let him know that you’re interested in him as more than a friend. It will also, very simply, give you experience flirting! Flirting is a great tool that men and women should use to let others know how they feel about them. 😉 Men want to chase after women and win them over, but they want a hint that they’re going in the right direction, and if you give him nothing, he’ll move on. But if you give him something to chase after — flirtation, compliments, small talk — he’ll feel that the door is open.

I hope that helps.

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